Saturday, October 6, 2007

Jammu Notings











Date: Mid July, 2007

  • North Indian weddings are full of fun and frolic.

  • Aditya's family is very warm, especially his brother Atul, his sister Manisha and his cousin Sachin. His friend Amit is a fine chap.
  • Jammu is a quaint city. It has small gulleys with shops loaded with dry fruits, clothes, woollens and cricket bats. Thinks work at a languorous pace.
  • Jammu has a lot of temples. The legacy of the Hindu kings - Hari Singh, Charan Singh, etc...is present all over. Though Jammu is the summer capital of J&K, it hardly feels like a capital city. Instead, today it survives as the stop-over junction for pilgrims headed to Vaishno Devi and Amarnath.
  • I understand why Aditya wanted to leave Jammu. It is a small temple town with petty trade. Not the place for one with Aditya's talents and ambition. It is like Vitla or Mangalore.
  • Nice place for shopping, it's cheaper than the metros. Apples cost Rs. 25 a kg!!
  • Lots of greenery like in Bangalore.
  • Shop keepers ae not nice, you feel they are out to cheat you. Mean petty traders.
  • Women are very beautiful. Sharp features and fair complexions. Demure and conservatively dressed. They are nice to look at.
  • Sigh... Jammu is a city under siege. Every vantage point is occupied by a gun-totting army jawan. Every street corner has an army SUV with the trademark green camouflage. The army presence intrudes into daily life. They are there everywhere.

Tuesday, October 2, 2007

The Bourne Utlimatum - whoa!

what a movie!!!!
12/10 ..... stunning ensemble of art, narration, action-sequences....and the pace of the movie....mind-blowing...this is what action stories are meant to be...this is one 3 DVD set i'm buying as soon as it hits the shelves..

Monday, September 24, 2007

Manorama - six feet under!....hmm..ho....so, so..


Now, don't get me wrong. MSFU is a good movie. It has good production values, a taut story line, good performances - all in all, a well made film. I would give it 9/10 on any scale of movie-making. But, after enduring all those twists and turns for two hours in the dark hall, you walk out feeling....hmm....ho....so, so...


I felt really let down by the ending. Such a dark and macabre film deserved a more shocking ending, not the benign and preachy "sabka katega" ending that it has. The moralising about how the smaller fish sometimes escapes because it's small enough, or the bigger fish gets gobbled up by an even bigger fish, didn't go down well with me. A nice end would've been the bad guy getting away with everything and our man the novelist-detective leaving the city in disgust, or, the novelist guy decides its time to buy land and co-opts with the baddy. Worst case, if you had to show the baddy being punished, then our detective friend should've used his novelist dimaak to come up with a hideous counter plan to entrap maharajah saab and bury him in the rubble of his misdeeds.

Watch Johnny Gaddar to get a drift of what I'm saying. In the end, the scheming protagonist meets his end, but, it is done in style. There's no preachy sermon about good versus evil. Instead, our alec smart gets out smarted one last time...

My recommendation: Both movies are a good watch....ideal weekend DVD flicks...will keep you hooked....welcome to nouveau noir bollywood style..


Tuesday, September 11, 2007

The importance of "doing" - Gandhi vs. Tolstoy

I visited the Gandhi memorial in the Birla House, a few weeks back. The garden outside the memorial is lined with photographs with captions that narrate Gandhiji's life's story. Walking through the exhibit was a moving experience, the nuggets from Gandhiji's life touched me deeply.

One such nugget recalls Gandhiji's interaction with the famed Russian philosopher and writer, Leo Tolstoy. Tolstoy's work, "The Kingdom of God is Within You", in which he advocates his views about non-violent resistance, left a lasting impression on young Gandhi's mind when he read it during his barrister days in South Africa. The ideas espoused in the book became Gandhiji's core guiding principles in the days to come. Gandhiji regarded Tolstoy to be his friend, guide and philosopher and wrote to him several times seeking advice and approval.

Tolstoy and Gandhiji offer an interesting study in contrast in terms of how they practised their life's beliefs. Tolstoy was a man who restricted his ideas to the realms of thought. This bred within him a deep sense of frustration and dejection at the general state of affairs in the world. He was pained to see his people suffer at the hands of the Tsar when there were so many better alternatives that he had preached in his books. This dejection led him to a deep state of depression from which he could never recover. His health deteriorated rapidly and he lost the will to survive. He writes about these things in his letters to Gandhi. In these letters, he also expresses his appreciation for Gandhiji's actions. He talks about the joy that he felt when he saw someone actually practise what he preached in his books. This leads us to the point that I want to make about Gandhiji's life.

Ghandiji was a "doer". He actually practised what he read in Tolstoy's works. He was a person who lived in the realm of action, not just thought. This is what made him such a great man. The principles of non-violence and passive resistance had been preached for ages, but for someone to actually practise them in the way that he did, took a lot of guts and courage. In fact, this is what helped a sensitive soul like Gandhiji keep his sanity intact as opposed to Tolstoy, who disintegrated beneath the burden of his conscience.

This story, shook me up like no other. In a simple way it explains the power of "doing". It explains why Gandhiji commands the respect that he has. It explains why the world celebrates Gandhiji the way it does. Due to over-exposure to Gandhi, we Indians tend to forget the reason for his greatness. Modern day spindoctors often tend to nitpick on the man's human failings in a bid to malign his memory and serve their personal agendas. Gandhiji was a "doer", if for nothing else, at least respect him for that.



Epilogue: A wonderful nugget from the Birla House exhibit.
Gandhiji never felt constrained by imprisonment. In fact he looked forward to it as a welcome vacation break from his hectic lifestyle. The walls of the prison actually sheltered him from the outside world and gave him time to read, write, pray and do things that he didn't find time for otherwise. Menial labour did not deter him, in fact he voluntarily enrolled for scavanging duty. I suspect that he actually looked forward to an imprisonment break once in every few years!
Learning: Relish every situation in life. There is something to learn from every experience.

Saturday, August 11, 2007

Delhi!

“God willing we shall see the metro on Saturday”, exclaimed Kamal Sekhon.

Sekhon is one helluva character…..Punjab da puttar, he’s the most jovial bloke I’ve ever met in my life. His dad is an army colonel serving in Pune. Sekhon had the option of joining the NDA but he chose to do the engineering-work-MBA jig instead and today he is my partner in crime while palming off expensive software to gullible enterprise customers.

Tired with our daily routine in Gurgaon, we hatched a plan to explore new territories and beyond….we dared to seek the alluring and magnificient Delhi!!

The Delhi metro miracle!!

Sekhon’s cool-retro-classic-macho Enfield Bullet transported us from Gurgaon to Dwaraka (15 km) in under 30 mins. Dwaraka is the closest metro station to Gurgaon. If the spacious parking lot beside the metro station was a pleasant surprise, what we saw inside the station blew our mind. The Delhi metro is truly world-class. I’ve travelled by the tube all over Europe and I must say the Delhi metro is right up there with the best in terms of efficiency, cleanliness and safety. Trains run every five minutes and GPS systems that track train movement announce train arrivals on giant LCD boards on the platform. The metro experience makes one feel proud, but it also makes one wonder what kept the metro so long? Why didn’t the town planners of the 70s include metros in their blueprints?

Long-time Delhi resident friends of mine say that the Delhi metro has altered Delhi for the better. It has removed loads of traffic of the roads. Wherever the Delhi metro passed, land was acquired to make the roads wider and more beautiful. The average Delhiite swears by the metro and so do I.


Connaught Place

Our first haunt of the day was Connaught Place. We hoped off at the metro at the Rajiv Chowk station. "CP", as Connaught Place is commonly referred to, is bang in the center of Delhi and houses a sprawling up-market shopping district. CP is made up of three concentric roads that are lined with old-fashioned white-washed buildings, that give the area a European feel. Housed within these quaint buildings are flashy modern shops, filled with the latest designer brands. The charming mix of old architecture and new shops, makes CP an ideal destination for relaxed holiday shopping. In any case, it is a welcome break from the garish malls of Gurgaon.

We hit CP at noon and we were hungry. While sauntering aimlessly along the promenade in the inner-most circle, Khon spotted a kulcha-channa man on the pavement. Khon had vowed to introduce me to Delhi cuisine, and pavement ka kulcha, he said, was a good place to start. And so we stood beneath the Anti-Malaria Operations wing of the Delhi Muncipal Corporataion and munched delicious kulcha-channa off the pavement! Delhi's baked kulcha deserves a whole blog for itself. Amazing stuff - tasty, light and filling, don't miss it if you are in these parts of the country.


Beer Hunt

After the kulcha, Khon and me were thirsty. Hot sultry afternoon, spicy meal, parched throats, the best possible remedy is fermented ambrosia that goes by the name - cold beer! But, the cheap skates that we are, we decided to skip the pubs in the locality and instead buy ourselves beer cans at the ubiquitous "Theka" aka liquor shops that you would find everywhere in the NCR region.

Like determined boy scouts on a trail, we scurried along every nook and conner of CP in search for the promised "Theka". And just as awe were getting tired of the hunt, Sekhon gave a yelp! To my bewilderment he stood transfixed in front of a crockery and cutlery store! Now what on earth did Khon spot in the crockery store!

"I want to buy a wallet from here", announced Sekhon. I stared at the shop in disbelief, crockery store and leather wallet didn't sound right...But then as I followed Sekhon into the store, I couldn't help smiling. Here was a store that was different from everything else in CP. It was not a new flashy designer store like the rest. Instead, it was an old ramshackle place run by an old ramshackle shopkeeper housing a curious mix of antiquated items of all kinds. It was a survivor from a bygone era and Sekhon wanted to buy his wallet from this very shop!

While buying the wallet from the old shopkeeper, Sekhon knew he was stepping into connoisseur zone. Khon put his best manners and best language skills on display. He spoke chaste Hindi and threw in a few Urdu phrases for effect. Instead of haggling over price, he admired the features and the fine craftsmanship that went
into the wallet. He inquired about its lineage and was satisfied when he heard that it came straight from Agra - the land of the Taj! After all that, there was no scope for negotiating, Khon compensated the shopkeeper generously and took possession of his fine wallet.

After that small distraction of the wallet purchase, we refocused our energies on the quest for the liquor shop. After circumambulating the three circles three more times we finally discovered a line of liquor shops embedded deep in the second circle of the CP maze. However, beer wasn't going to come easy. Now we had a fresh problem on hand. None of these guys sold cans! They were all wholesalers who doled out crates of beer; a request for two cans brought us scorn and a frown and the occasional gali, which Khon returned with glee.

But then, there was light at the end of the tunnel, the last shop didn't have cans but agreed to sell us a bottle. Aah....redemption at last. Khon bought the bottle and the two of us sipped some chilled Bauer by the road-side while admiring the latest Sx4 car on display at the Maruti show room across the road. Thoroughly refreshed, we were now ready to conquer Delhi.

Palika Bazaar

One of the sections of CP, houses Palika Bazaar, a favourite haunt for those looking for pirated CDs, cheap computer accessories and electronic knick knacks. Every city has one of these shady areas, Bangalore has its SP Road and Mumbai its Lamington road. For gaming enthusiasts, movie addicts and gizmo freaks, this is the place to be. I recently picked up an 8 GB Transcend thumb drive from Palika Bazaar for a thousand ruppes....pretty cool, huh?

After the alcoholic refreshments Sekhon and me sauntered into Palika Bazaar. There we bumped into Vaishnav, a colleague at work and my roomie at home. He's another character. He's getting married this November, and ever since his wedding date has been fixed he's been on a ladki gumane ki spree. Not surprisingly, he was in Palika Bazaar helping a female friend with her weekend shopping!













Sarvana Bhavan - yoohoo!
Now, fellow South Indians would understand my excitement. For a southie foodie stranded in Delhi, Sarvana Bhavan is the equivalent of El Dorado. The exertions of the afternoon had left us famished and both of us agreed to raid the legendary Sarvana Bhavan. Finding Sarvana Bhavan was not half as difficult as procuring beer. A few questions for directions led us to the revered spot. Savor the sight.


Well, we glided into the restaurant like awestruck teenagers. We plonked ourselves into a cozy corner on the mezzanine floor and started drooling at the culinary sights in the vicinity. While chatting up with the floor manager we learnt that he had started his career as superstar Rajnikanth's cook! We were in esteemed company!


The evening-tiffin-combo on the menu card sounded perfect and we ordered. It's one helluva of a preparation, it has a miniature masala dosa, kutti idlis, accompanied by scoops of khara bath and kesari bath, served with generous doses of chutney and sambhar...wow....the best of south indian cooking in a plate!!...have a look..

We washed down the combo with classic filter coffee and couldn't help sporting a goofy grin of supreme satisfaction on a job well done :)

Having seen the best of New Delhi, next on the agenda was Old Delhi. Lal Quila beckoned!

Shahjahanabad - home of the Mughals

to be continued..





Wednesday, August 8, 2007

"Black".....Pearl Jam

My fav. piece of lyrics...."Black"....by Pearl Jam

Sheets of empty canvas, untouched sheets of clay
Were laid spread out before me as her body once did.
All five horizons revolved around her soul
As the earth to the sun
Now the air I tasted and breathed has taken a turn

Ooh, and all I taught her was everything
Ooh, I know she gave me all that she wore
And now my bitter hands chafe beneath the clouds
Of what was everything.
Oh, the pictures have all been washed in black, tattooed everything...

I take a walk outside
I'm surrounded by some kids at play
I can feel their laughter, so why do I sear?
Oh, and twisted thoughts that spin round my head
I'm spinning, oh, I'm spinning
How quick the sun can drop away

And now my bitter hands cradle broken glass
Of what was everything?
All the pictures have all been washed in black, tattooed everything...

All the love gone bad turned my world to black
Tattooed all I see, all that I am, all I'll be... yeah...
Uh huh... uh huh... ooh...

I know someday you'll have a beautiful life,
I know you'll be a sun in somebody else's sky, but why
Why, why can't it be, why can't it be mine


Thanks SS for introducing me to this song..



Tuesday, August 7, 2007

The truth about hard work...


Reproduced below is an excerpt from a Will Smith interview in the March 2007 issue of Reader's Digest.

Reader's Digest: So getting to where you are is all about running hard?
Will Smith: Most people you are going to be in competition with are not gonna give 100 percent. If you catch a bad day, you are going to run up against someboy willing to do 87 percent. You're still going to win............................When I say I am going to run five kilometers, I run eight. With that mentality, it is actually difficult to lose.

RD: You work harder than the next guy?
Smith: I consider myself to be basically average talent, right? What I have that other people do not have is a sick, obsessive, raw animal drive.

RD: Do you get tired of pushing?
Smith: Not yet. There is no pain worse than not achieving a dream when it is your fault. If God did not want you to have it, that is one thing. But if you do not get what you desire because you are lazy, there is no pain worse than that.

Reader's Digest, March 2007

I can strongly relate to the highlighted portion in the excerpt. In my case trying harder is not about showing-off or currying favors, it is my only hope for survival in the face of more talented competition.